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For Better or Less

When it comes to relationships never go in with high expectations. Especially if you have met each other as adults or independently young…

May 13, 2023

For Better or Less

May 13, 2023

Unorthodox threesome

Infidelity is never acceptable but for some reason, we seem to normalize it nowadays. No one has seen Hell or Heaven. The latter is more…

Mar 21, 2023

Unorthodox threesome

Mar 21, 2023

Be Silent And Use Your Words Sparingly

We don’t really have to join yoga classes to free ourselves from all unresolved life challenges. Life is not about faking who you are to…

Feb 11, 2023

Be Silent And Use Your Words Sparingly

Feb 11, 2023

Life’s complicated. Get used to it.

It is possible that two people who are now best lovers can become enemies with passion in the future. You will know the world has turned…

Nov 5, 2022

Life’s complicated. Get used to it.

Nov 5, 2022

We’re all vulnerable to rejection

Life is about setting goals, making decisions you wish you wont regret later. It is facing all the fears of the unknown. The only thing…

Oct 3, 2022

We’re all vulnerable to rejection

Oct 3, 2022

Many communicate but few connect

This was a statement by one of my friends and a colleague back then, Denzel Pedro Smit. It stayed on me as long as I’ve heard it. It made…

Jan 23, 2022

Many communicate but few connect

Jan 23, 2022

Be that coward once

Changing a course is not a sign of failure and defeat. Changing lanes to give way for a speeding automobile car is not a sign of…

Jan 8, 2022

Be that coward once

Jan 8, 2022

There is nothing permanent in life

The excitement we have when falling in love with someone new and different is only temporary. It is like a well-planned event or project of…

Dec 5, 2021

There is nothing permanent in life

Dec 5, 2021

Nomonde’s Sex Slavery True Story by a clergyman

I was not ready for what I’ve heard from a lady who seemed to be fine and looked happier than anyone. Nothing of an abused background…

Sep 2, 2021

Nomonde’s Sex Slavery True Story by a clergyman

Sep 2, 2021

Blaming yourself all the time

It doesn’t serve the world to keep blaming yourself every time something bad happens to you. It’s a fact that many are times you try to be…

Aug 19, 2021

Blaming yourself all the time

Aug 19, 2021

Stuff happens

Life is not certain and not everything you have planned works according to the plan. I am not into the idea of the New Age Movement, the…

Jun 20, 2021

Stuff happens

Jun 20, 2021

A need for space

It is possible that one of the reasons you ever fighting with no solution in almost every kind of relationship is because you are on each…

May 1, 2021

A need for space

May 1, 2021

Lifetime regrets to avoid

It is everyone’s hope to never live life with regrets but unfortunately, we do have plenty. In fact, life with no regrets is nothing but…

Apr 8, 2021

Lifetime regrets to avoid

Apr 8, 2021

What if your Church is a cult too?

When some of the Church leaders get busted for their dirty laundry, my first response is that they are also humans. They make mistakes and…

Mar 28, 2021

What if your Church is a cult too?

Mar 28, 2021

The future has always been unclear

Try to ask your teenage boy or girl where do they see themselves in the next five years. Rated as top in number of followers on Instagram…

Mar 15, 2021

The future has always been unclear

Mar 15, 2021

It’s not cheating but rather exploring

When you are married and having an affair it’s considered as cheating. I for one too believe so but some debators have a different view. I…

Mar 12, 2021

It’s not cheating but rather exploring

Mar 12, 2021

Being sold hope

When my friend and I were invited to a free financial Seminar in Cape Town, South Africa we bought into it. I was very cautious with the…

Feb 14, 2021

Being sold hope

Feb 14, 2021

A relationship is learning someone till death or break up

We get hurt when our loved ones depart because that course of knowing each has never been finished. They depart while we’re still on page…

Feb 4, 2021

A relationship is learning someone till death or break up

Feb 4, 2021

Suround yourself with people who are also not like-minded too

It is a good thing to ask advice from those who are ahead of you in your craft. We all know and have heard the phrase, 'surround yourself…

Feb 3, 2021

Suround yourself with people who are also not like-minded too

Feb 3, 2021

Benefits of both positive and negative feedback

Two friends have come on my case twice in life. Since then I’ve realised two criticism that either help or you allow one to destroy you…

Feb 1, 2021

Benefits of both positive and negative feedback

Feb 1, 2021

Malibongwe Sithelo

Malibongwe Sithelo

I'm a freelance writer, a runner and a public servant in South Africa. I write about everyday life experiences.

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